...which begs the question, how does one handle the very common situation of the sometimes inevitable situation of absence of sex and sex drive during pregnancy? You don't want to do it. He may not be into you or fear hurting the baby. You might feel that way and then again, you are usually hormonal uber bitchy and snapping his head off most the time ...
Combine that with some other residual issues at home, maybe the stress from a job or job loss, or other major life change, a move to a new city, the illness or death of a family member, financial stress, or maybe marriage is just not going smooth as you imagined it always would because you married too young like Tiger and Elin did....
...and what you may have is a nice recipe for your mate to dip out on you and have an affair. Maybe not an all out affair, maybe just a fling with some bar fly he picks up while away on a conference...maybe an office mate during a moment of weakness during an after work meet up for drinks...
...it happens. Not always to the worst of guys, but just plain fellahs, non celebrity, politician, socialite rich types with loads of women throwing themselves at them all the time...
...no woman is ever prepared for that and it smacks of the ultimate insult because there you are carrying his child and suffering through all the aches, and pains of pregnancy and he's out there sowing his oats with another woman...
...I have no solution, just ranting and carrying over on this blog some thoughts, conversations and discussions I have been having with Twitter, Facebook and Blog Chatbox friends here and there...
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